Today is the day I turn 55 years young and I have more than 300 fr.ee gifts for you today. But more about that in a minute. I want to talk to you for a minute about measuring your personal level of success. There are a lot of ways to do it. Money, fame, professional awards are all ways to keep score and track how you’re doing. However, there are better ways. This morning my wife gave me a birthday that really made my day. No, it wasn’t the pretty picture or the “Hallmark” verse. It was the signature. Just a few words. “Thanks for being the man you are. Love , She’s a keeper! No doubt I’m truly blessed. So, if you don’t mind – I’m going to keep on feeling smug and assume I did something right! Oh yea, I almost forgot the 300 gifts. There’s a great, unique “Self Help Giveaway” that launched today. These are brought to you courtesy of a pair of my favorite marketers who are running a massive “mind and body” self improvement giveaway right now: http://selfhelpgiftsgiveaway.com The Self Help Gifts Giveaway event is definitely one of the better giveaways that I have seen recently, and I think you will really enjoy what they have to offer. Here’s a tip, I set up a folder on my computer desktop to download all the gifts I was interested in. Then later I can go back I can actully find what I downloaded. Well, I’m off to an engagement party for niece. Make sure to get your self help gifts! => http://selfhelpgiftsgiveaway.com Wishing you a larger life, P.S. My buddy Mike Paetzold’s “Saturday Seven” sale is only good till Monday. So check out his “Get Success Results” now
Joan”
Coach Bill
for only 7 bucks…
Tags: Mike Paetzold, Richard Feynman, self-improvement, success, success results
“The error of youth is to believe that intelligence is a substitute for experience, while the error of age is to believe experience is a substitute for intelligence.” — Lyman Bryson
I just returned from a 7 day vacation to meet my new grandson Tyler Nicholas Tooker. My wife Joan had headed down to North Carolina to be there for the birth (Nichole’s first) and I got away as soon as I could. One of the nicest breaks I can remember.
Instant Attitude Adjustment
Nichole, Joan and Tyler picked me up a the airport and I can say without the least bit of partiality that this is the most beautiful baby ever born. Well OK, maybe I’m just a little partial;-)
It was good to hold an infant again. To look at those big eyes looking at me, taking in whatever I said, trying to understand and interact with his environment. Bonding with him for seven days reminded of what is truly important and truly matters. It even seems that he is partial to his “poppy” singing him to sleep. (I cheat, I sing and walk him at the same time - we all have our roles to play.)
I was also reminded of some other things, for example how precious sleep is to the parents of a new born. How much energy and time is expended in the care of new born. How worried a first time parent can be about issues we old parenting “veterans” take in stride. How important a future orientation is.
I’m sure it was always such, that all through human history grandparents have had the same thoughts and emotions. Miss the little guy already!
In any case, I’m back to my routine now, attitude adjusted, hope in the future restored. Think I’ll get some sleep!
BB
BabyTyler
Tags: Attitude, attitude adjustment, Lyman Bryson
“I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.” – Albert Schweitzer (14 January 1875 – 4 September 1965)
Day 7: Serve others to reinvent yourself.
When you live authentically, you may find that you develop an interconnected sense of being. When you are true to who you are, living your purpose and giving of your talents to the world around you, you give back in service what you came to share with others – your spirit – your essence. The rewards for sharing your gift with those close to you is indeed rewarding, even more so in the eyes of a stranger who can appreciate what you have done for them.
Reinvention is indeed a type of work that is worth the necessary effort. Don’t limit your personal reinvention to the confines of your, or the four corners of your own home. The difference the reinvention makes lies within ourselves and how much we want to change for the better.
I hope that you’ve enjoyed the series and found it useful!
Wishing you a larger life,
BB
Tags: albert schweitzer, crash course, Reinvention, service
I celebrate myself, and sing myself
I loaf and invite my soul. . .
- Walt Whitman (May 31, 1819 – March 26, 1892)
Day 6: Honor your strengths.
What are your positive traits? What special talents do you have? List three – if you get stuck, ask those closest to you to help identify these. Are you imaginative, witty, good with your hands?
Find ways to express your authentic self through your strengths. You can increase your self-confidence when you share what you know with others.
Wishing you a larger life,
BB
Tags: authentic self, crash course, Reinvention, self confidence, walt whitman
“Like an ability or a muscle, hearing your inner wisdom is strengthened by doing it.” - Robbie Gass Increase your awareness of your inner wisdom by regularly reflecting in silence. Commune with nature. Breathe deeply to quiet your distracted mind. For most of us city slickers it’s hard to find the peace and quiet we want even in our own home. In my case I sometimes just sit in a dimly lit room and play some classical music. There’s sound, yes, but music does soothe the savage beast. Wishing you a larger life, Tags: crash course, personal success, Reinvention, Robbie Gass, wisdom
Day 5: To Reinvent Yourself Live from the inside out.
BB
“Chase your passion, not your pension.” — Denis Waitley
Day 4: Know your passions.
You know who you are and what you truly enjoy in life. Obstacles like doubt and lack of enthusiasm will only hinder you, but will not derail your chance to become the person you want and ought to be. Express yourself and honor the people who have inspired you to become the person you wanted to be.
Tags: denis waitley, passions, personal success, Reinvent
“A man travels the world over in search of what he needs and returns home to find it.” - George Moore
Day 3: Know your needs.
Unmet needs can keep you from living authentically. Make sure you take care of yourself. Do you have a need to be acknowledged, to be right, to be in control, to be loved? There are so many people who lived their lives without realizing their dreams and most of them end up being stressed or even depressed for that matter.
List your top four needs and get them met before it’s too late!
Tags: george moore, Reinvent, unmet needs
Day 2: Know your values
“I believe that one defines oneself by reinvention. To not be like your parents. To not be like your friends. To be yourself. To cut yourself out of stone.” – Henry Rollins
What are you highest values? Do you value financial security? Social or personal status? More time with family and friends? Staying in great shape? Spiritual development? Learning?
Make a list of your top 5 to 8 values. This will help you clarify what your trying to accomplish. As you set your goals for 2010 and beyond – check your goals against your values. If the goal doesn’t align with any of your top values – you may want to reconsider it or revise it.
Wishing you a larger life,
Coach Bill
Tags: coach bill, henry rollins, life coach, Reinvention, values
Day 1: Know your purpose.
“We immediately become more effective when we decide to change ourselves rather than asking things to change for us.” - Dr. Stephen Covey
Are you wandering through life with little direction – hoping that you’ll find happiness, health and prosperity? Identify your life purpose or write a personal mission statement, click the v and you will have your own unique compass that will lead you to your truth north every time.
I know that if you’re in a “tight spot” or a “dead end” job this may seem overwhelming. But you need to find out out what it is that you really love to do if you’re going to make progress. Remember we’re creating a new you, a you that will turn things around and you make a big difference.
If you don’t know where to start there’s a number of tools that can help. Franklin Covey has a nifty little free interactive tool that’s great for values clarification (when the page opens, click the “Your Values” tab). One of my favorite tools a SWOT analysis. It can be applied to any number of different situations. By the way, SWOT stands for:
- Stregths
- Weeknesses
- Opprotunties
- Threats
A SWOT matrix is a framework for analyzing your strengths and weaknesses as well as the opportunities and threats that you face. This helps you focus on your strengths, minimize your weaknesses, and take the greatest possible advantage of opportunities available to you. The tool is basically a grid with each word in representing a single square, (further explanation here) you can perform an analysis of your personal situation.
As excellent a tool as SWOT is , it’s only one tool in the coach’s reinvention tool box. Here’s a link to a listing of 50 free on-line that may help you in finding your purpose.
So finally, as difficult as it may be , you must get clear on your purpose or you’ll find it very difficult to make any real progress in your personal reinvention. Always remember that it’s real easy to get lost on a trip when you don’t know your destination 
That’s it for now, see you on day 2.
BB
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HELPFUL to achieving the objective |
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STRENGTHS Very determined person Recognizes need to slow down Reflective- can see effects of not expressing creativity Always sees things through |
LIMITATIONS Very afraid of working less and losing money especially now Can be stubborn and unwilling to see own vulnerabilities “I am invincible – can do anything” “I must try harder” Experience failure if give up working so hard |
Tags: dead end job, life purpose, personal mission statement, Reinvention, stephen covey
7-Day Reinvention Introduction
“Reinventing the wheel is sometimes the right thing, when the result is the radial tire.” – Jonathan Gilbert
Lately I’ve been working with some folks are in the midst of reinventing themselves. Whether through layoffs, company reorganizations or the kids moving out, they’ve reached some sort of cross roads while traveling through their personal and/or professional journey.
Why am I the guy to give personal success coaching to these travelers? Well, I guess I’m the right age (54), and as the saying goes -been there and done that! Like most of us Ive had many roles during this life, son, husband, father and now grandfather. Career wise, I have worked in a variety of industries including construction, education, and finance. I have held various positions in these industries, everything from laborer, to classroom teacher, to senior management. Enough about me, back to the folks I coach.
In honor of their journey, Ill be presenting an outline of seven steps you can take to to Reinvent Yourself (hence the 7-Day title). In the interest of full disclosure, (as the attorneys say) you may want or need to spend more than one day working on each step. But hey, its still a great title right?
Wishing you a larger life,
BB
Tags: jonathan gilbert, personal success, Reinvention, success coaching